CARRIGROHANE UNION OF PARISHES
2nd April 2017
13th April – Holy Thursday – Agape Meal
Due to unforeseen circumstances we’re changing our plans for the meal on Thursday of Holy Week – It’s now an Agape meal (Communion Service with evening meal included) in the Parish Centre. The whole parish family is invited – sign up on Sunday. (Bring a main course/desert to share) 6-7.30ish Followed by a short service in St. Peters.
Growing Up with a Third Hand
If parenting is always challenging, the power of the mobile phone and social media over our children’s lives is like a “third hand”. That is, for many, it so much a part of them that it has become indispensable to the way they function. The problem is that it can lead to sleeplessness, loss of self-esteem and mental health issues.
Writing in the Cork Independent*, the “third hand” is Eileen Keane’s way of understanding how serious this culture change has taken hold in the last ten years. Eileen argues for more support and education for children to channel the power of this technology for good. She writes about huge levels of regret, from not turning off phones while studying, scrolling through meaningless information on the net; that they did not have enough time with family and real friends, and regret around sexual relationships. She says:
They are bombarded daily with images of their peers looking great, appearing happy and with a busy social life. What they do not see is these same people, feeling lonely, upset or angry. Social media allows us to show a snippet of our lives, but only the part we might want people to see.
The sadness of the “third hand” is the loss of self-worth. A loss of dignity. “Love from the centre of who you are” ** is the encouragement of God’s Word, while for many the centre is a whirlpool sucking in negativity and we lose who we truly are.
And it hurts, not just the young adult, but the parent who wants to reach out in love, but in doing so is like a gardener reaching for the briers from a beautiful shrub without gloves, and lacerating their hands. Our children are beautiful and therefore they give us the greatest grief, especially when we feel powerless to help. Parents too struggle to “love from the centre” and find themselves pulling out the thorns of regret and guilt that have embedded themselves in the depths of their being.
But God’s Word is not just a standard to live up to, but a signal to where we recover our dignity. To use the language of the mobile phone, when we are “in range”, we find at the centre God’s love seen astonishingly in thorns and a pierced body. And looking on at the Cross, a parent** who saw it all happening to her son and yet watched with dignity. For she was a keeper of the promise that in His wounds we are healed**. And from that place of being healed, love from the centre of who we are and embrace the thorns as Christ does. Then we are in that place to reach out to our children to help them love from the centre. Then together, when we come “in range” to hope:
And Instead of the thorn-bush will grow the juniper, and instead of briers the myrtle will grow. This will be for the Lord’s renown, for an everlasting sign that will endure for ever.’ Isaiah 55 v 13
We are delighted to welcome as our Holy Week speaker the Rev John Scott, formerly Rector of Seapatrick Banbridge & Archdeacon of Down and Dromore.
John is taking as his theme: ‘IT IS FINISHED’
12th April 8pm St Senan’s Inniscarra – Spy Wednesday
13th April 6pm Parish Centre Carrigrohane – Agape Supper at 6pm for the whole Church Family
We then “go out” to Gethsemane i.e : 8pm St Peter’s Church – A short reflective service for Holy Thursday & Prayer for Wholeness and Healing
GOOD FRIDAY – 14th April 11.30am Ballincollig (for 12 noon prompt start) Ballincollig Stations of the Cross – meet outside the Church of St Mary and St John Station Rd.
8pm The Church of the Resurrection Blarney – Good Friday Service
16th April Easter Sunday
9.30 am – Holy Communion, St Peter’s, Carrigrohane
11 am – Sunday AM in the Parish Centre
11 am – Holy Communion, Blarney
11 am – Holy Communion, St Senan’s, Inniscarra
THIS COMING WEEK beginning 3rd April
Office Hours: Mon & Wed 9.30-3.30pm – Tues & Thurs 9.30-12.30pm.
Monday 3rd St Peter’s Carrigrohane
12 noon The Daily Office (Church open from 9am)
Tuesday 4th The Church of the Resurrection, Blarney – 10am – 12 noon Toddlers in Blarney
8pm Growth Group
11am Bible Study Prayer and Fellowship in the Parish Centre
8pm – Prayer time in the Meeting room of the Parish Centre led by Wednesday evening House Group.
8.15pm St Senan’s Choir Practice ( now meeting on Thursday weekly)
Friday 7th The Parish Centre – 10.15 – 11.45 am – Carrigrohane Toddlers
7 – 9pm Glow in the Parish Centre
9th April Palm Sunday
9.30 am – Morning Prayer, St Peter’s, Carrigrohane
11 am – Sunday AM with ADVENTURERS in the Parish Centre
11 am – A Service of the Word, St Senan’s, Inniscarra
3.30 pm – Lighthouse The Church of the Resurrection, Blarney
Thank God for the improvement in Mary Venables mother Maggie who suffered a stroke. Please keep praying.
This week more significant meetings take place in regard to our plans for Ballincollig – please pray that we will know when to keep pushing and when to rest and trust God.
INTERCESSIONS FOR THE ANGLICAN CHURCH
Kilmoe Trevor Lester
The Mothers’ Union
Those with special needs
(Anglican Cycle of Prayer)
Mityana – (Uganda) Rt Revd Stephen Kaziimba
CUP: St Peter’s Carrigrohane – St. Senan’s Inniscarra – The Church of the Resurrection Blarney – Sunday AM Carrigrohane /Ballincollig
Parish Office – 021 4877260, firstname.lastname@example.org
Rector: Canon Ian Jonas email@example.com 0214871106
Associate Minister: Revd Robert Ferris firstname.lastname@example.org 0214516620
Youth workers: Matt and Katie Gould email@example.com